[You can see a reader’s guide to the book here.]
While most people seem to be quite clear on what it means to experience a life well lived, how to achieve it seems to elude the great majority. The gap between the what and the how of a good life is wide. Why? The emerging science of abundance, Ecosynomics, suggests that much of the gap can be explained by the agreements most people unconsciously accept. By not being aware of the deeply embedded assumptions we all accept in our daily interactions, we unconsciously live in to a “how” of achieving a life well lived that is misaligned with our intentions. We accept a means that does not get us to the ends we want. We accept this means because it seems to make sense. Yet, the means we accept is incomplete, describing only part of the path towards a full life. This incompleteness is hidden in the economic, political, cultural, and social assumptions we unknowingly accept. Author and founder of Huffington Post, Arianna Huffington, suggests a more complete set of metrics for success.
“The way we’ve defined success is not enough. And it’s no longer sustainable: It’s no longer sustainable for human beings or for societies. To live the lives we truly want and deserve, and not just the lives we settle for, we need a Third Metric, a third measure of success that goes beyond the two metrics of money and power, and consists of four pillars: well-being, wisdom, wonder, and giving.” (pages 3-4 of book)
Arianna describes and illustrates these four pillars of the third metric with vivid examples from her own life, from a wide breadth of recent research, and from many examples of people making more conscious choices about these critical assumptions. I highly recommend this practical look at a life well lived.