As Homo lumens, a being of light, you know when you experience being alive. You experience many dimensions of aliveness. Energy, attraction to something, your senses, reflections on what you are perceiving, potentials, activities, outcomes, choices, physicality in 3 dimensions (breadth, width, depth), groups, others, your own self. You experience all of this. And, you are unique in what you experience and in how you experience it.
You are uniquely contextualized. You are the only human being that can be in the exact place where you find yourself in space and time. Nobody else can be in the exact same space at the exact same time. So, everyone else is in a different space at any given time, or in a different time in any given space, therefore their experience, their perspective, on any experience is different, even if only a little bit. You are also the only human that has grown up with the exact set of experiences you have had. Nobody else has had the same whole set of exact experiences you have had. This chain of experiences has influenced your context. Your contextualized experience throughout life is unique.
You are uniquely constituted. You are the only human being that was born to the parents you were with the exact genetic code that you have, which has expressed in the particular way your genetic code has. Even identical twins have different experiences, which cause different expressions of the genetic code to show up over time. You are uniquely constituted, with different gifts, developed capacities, potentials, and learning opportunities.
Since you and I are each uniquely constituted and uniquely contextualized, I cannot be having the same experience that you are having. They are different experiences. Different in what I see in the experiences. Different in how I relate them to elements in my lived context. Different in what I can do with them. Not at all like your experience. Ever.
Sometimes that our experiences are different is irrelevant. That your experience is different does not add to my experience. At the park, you experienced soaring with the eagles and smelled the pine trees, while I remembered making tunnels in the dirt in that same park as a kid. The difference does not matter.
Sometimes that our experiences are different is relevant. We work together, because you are creative, and so am I. That your experience is different does add to mine. In our conversation at the park, you were thinking of who to invite to dinner and games we could play. I was thinking about what we could eat, weaving in the food preferences of our guests. I need you to be different and relevant.
Since your experience is different than mine, there is only one way to know and benefit from the difference. I cannot directly experience your world. I can be with you in your world. I can ask you about your experience, and I can listen.